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Anonymous asked: Hi. I know of A LOT of people who dislike me for who i am and after many years of trying to make friends, i've still not succeeded and i feel so alone. Is there anything i can do? Or do i just pretend to be someone i'm not so that people will like me more?

Prisz. L answers:

Fat Amy says,”You are not really living if you cannot be 100% honest with yourself.” May i pose back a question to you: Why so?

Yes you may not be able to please everyone, but what’s the underlying problem in this? Does the problem lie on you? Have you been too cranky? Too bossy? Too rude? Too sarcastic? Too sticky? Don’t be afraid to admit, because nothing’s gonna change if even you arent honest with yourself. The key is to smile more. No one likes being near cranky people. Smile and the world would smile with you :)

I always say be yourself, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter wouldn’t mind. But changing yourself to be a better person aint really not being yourself. Step out of your comfort zone and improve yourself. Make the effort to be nicer to people, be appreciative and be proactive. You’ll eventually get so used to being this “nicer someone” that you find it so natural. If you want a change, make it happen! :)

Cheers,
Prisz. L

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Anonymous asked: JUST BROKE UP. I HATE MY LIFE. SUCK TO BE ME FUCK

Prisz. L answers:

Don’t be. Remember, you might have lost someone who do not love you enough. But he/she has lost someone who would have never given up on him/her. It’s his loss. 

He merely led you to meeting greater people in the future. Love yourself. Because if you don’t, who would?

Best wishes,
Prisz. L