Thought this post would come appropriate, especially since this is one of the roughest time for most of us who are schooling. Be it EOYs, promos or whichever major exams you’re preparing for, remember, hang tough and never give up.
This title is purely inspired by a childhood bestfriend of mine, who had recently caption his gym photo with this little quote. Not sure if he’s still following this blog, but he really inspires me. I remember he told me how frustrated it is for him to not see any progress despite his devilish gym sessions and crazy amount of weight gainer he takes, and he is already on the verge of giving up. I’m glad he did not. Because look at him now, one bufflord he is haha. For someone whom everyone thought he can never build up (due to some genetics reasons), i am immensely proud of him, for he is making progress every single day (albeit little) and came to become what he is today. Like him, while we are busy trying to make progress ourselves, we can never deny the fact that we need some form of help at some point in time. And this help may be from different people at different point in life. Seek help if you need, and cry if you must.
Yes, i said cry. Because according to most psychologists, crying is possibly one of the best way to release stress and vent your anger. But most people do not do that, because they are either too embarrassed to do so, or they simply do not see the need to cry. When really, after one big and loud cry, it gives you a clearer vision of where your goal is.
Like you, i am struggling. But i am not giving up because i have yet to see the results. No doubt i am making very marginal improvement, but don’t stop because you’re making little progress. Because even the slightest progress is progress. It doesnt matter where you’ve been, it only matters where you’re going.
So guys, chin up and look ahead.
It’s gonna be fine. :’)
Prisz. L answers:
Hahaha, this is funny. But you made a wise choice! :p
But I can’t really help if i don’t know what are your situations like eh… Try slipping little love notes to her every now and then? Be more sensitive to her needs? Pay more attention to what she say? The choice of words? There are actually abundance of ways to show your concern to different types of girls.
For instance, I have a friend who always receive sweets and chocolates from her boyfriend at different time of the day only ‘cos he knows she is a sleepy girl haha. I thought that’s pretty sweet cos not only is he paying attention to the little details about her, he also tries to cater to her needs. You can start by doing those little little things to make her feel loved.
Update me how it goes ;)
Prisz. L answers:
Write? I think writing help me express words i can’t bring myself to speak, yet a handwritten letter is definitely a million times more sincere than a sms :/
“Never forget the nine most important words of any family-
I love you.
You are beautiful.
Please forgive me.”
― H. Jackson Brown Jr.
Prisz. L answers:
Haha, it depends. Both on the types of sports and the subjecst you take? Some sports are more demanding, and some subjects require more time to master, and it really depends on individual (i.e how you learn).
For me, I took on competitive sports and during season i dedicate almost every night training. And even the weekends were not spared. But weekend trainings were in the morning, so technically after that i should have the whole day to catch up on my studies. But college is not just about studies right….. (haha) So i would make time for team dinner, etc.
But to be truthful, i did find it reeeeaaalllyyyy difficult during that period of time. Because it was both physically and mentally demanding. I am lethargic in class EVERYDAY because of insufficient sleep, but i make it a point to finish every single piece of assignment on time. I hadnt done any revision, and before i knew it, there were TOO MUCH to catch up on after season. Like seriously.
But I guess ultimately it really depends on how you dedicate your time to balance out the both RIGHT FROM THE START. If you love something hard enough, you will make time for it. Like for me now, i still make time for running, but i know when i should study. Set your priorities right and stay determined no matter how hard it gets. Sports is the best way to maintain your mental and physical state, especially in the JC curriculum haha.
ITS ALMOST THE LAST LAP, #LEGGO PPL!